AdultFriendFinder Review


Who says you can’t be over 40 and kinky? If we’ve learned anything from the Internet revolution, it’s that you can definitely be that, and it’s hard to think of a better place to fully explore that kinkiness – with all of the free and easy sex that you could imagine – than Adult FriendFinder. Every aspect of the site is geared for the ultimate in saucy fun and nothing less, with traditional profiles, sex cams, chat rooms, member blogs and more. There’s even a mobile app for enjoying all of this no-strings-attached fun ‘on the go’.


Certainly, all of the obvious dating site features are more than apparent here. There’s the usual messaging functionality and the ability to ‘hotlist’ or ‘flirt’ with other members. But you’ll also instantly notice various features that you might not have seen on other dating sites – kinky or otherwise. There’s the option for members to give each other testimonials, for example, while if you look at your profile, you’ll also see a Questions & Answers allowing you to give your prospective dates greater insight into your sexual proclivities – such as if you’ve ever had cybersex, and what toys you like to use during sex.

In fact, it doesn’t matter how far beyond 40 you are – you’ll definitely find something to appeal to the raunchy you, besides the dating profiles themselves. There’s a Live Action section, for example, encompassing the likes of live model chat, live member webcams and adult chat rooms. Alongside Blogs, Groups and a Magazine section, you can also easily discover the site’s hottest photos, videos, albums and members via a dedicated dropdown menu, while there are even member contests and ‘bling’, small icons that can be added to your profile or blog/group posts.


The site does make clear that it doesn’t undertake criminal background checks of its members, although it does give advice on dating site safety. In addition, the absence of any first or full names provides some natural in-built protection.

Sign Up

From the homepage, you simply need to enter some obvious details – such as what gender you are and what gender you seek, and indeed, you may sign up as a group, couple or TS/TV/TG, or express an interest in meeting those in these categories. You’ll also need to give the site your birthdate, your country and your postcode. Then, you’ll be asked to volunteer your email address, a username and password and the essential details for dating – namely an introduction title and a description about yourself.


A ‘You will get laid… or get three months free!’ guarantee will definitely draw you to the list of subscription options, and they’re good value subscription options too, with the 12 month Gold Membership, for example, costing you just $9.95 per month. But if you’re not sure about committing for that long, even the one month option is good short-term value.

1-Month Gold Membership$29.95$29.95-
3-Month Gold Membership$59.80$14.9533.4% ($30.05)
12-Month Gold Membership$179.10$9.9550.1% ($180.03)

Ease of Use

As a senior dater, if you aren’t well-versed in dating sites, you admittedly may find things here a bit bewildering at first – there are just that many options to explore. However, the various tabs on the homepage after you log in mean you should soon get to grips with what’s what. Place your mouse cursor over your username at the top right-hand side of the page to access some of those knottier, unglamorous things like your account settings and preferences. Live chat is also easy enough to access from the Live Action dropdown menu.

The Search

A dedicated Search section, easily accessed from the top of the page, makes it a simple process to hunt out any and every type of date. You could always just look at the Members Near Me, New Matches, Who’s Online or even the VIP Members page… or if you’re someone with more demanding tastes, you’ll find the search filters at the left hand side of the page a cinch to make sense of. Make it clear who you’re looking for, and how close they need to be to you. Alternatively, delve into more advanced options like searching by race, sexual orientation and/or male endowment.


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